Why I dislike Sex.

Don't get me wrong, the gratification during the act is great. It is the thoughts before and after that throw me off. For example, we are celebrating our 1 year anniversary tommorrow, now before I go any further I should explain that I attend college two hours away from my lover, so we rarely get a chance to make the bed shake, but I am home for winter break and we have seen each other around 5 days every week, and I have been home 3 weeks, so about 15 times we have been together. Ask me how many times we have had sex. three times. Now, that may work for some people, but when your used to a summer of constant play time, one has to wonder... what happened? Could our libidos really be leaving us at the ripe age of 19? or is there something wrong with our relationship?

See what I mean? when we have sex It's great, but all the energy I put into thinking about why we dont do it more often is not so great. Of course I could be on the other end of the spectrum. Having to much sex. Even then I would still over analyze the frequency. This leads me to my ultimate point/question.

Can you judge the health of a relationship based on the frequency of sex?